As much as we pride ourselves on being superior beings, we are just like all other life on earth and our animal instincts cause us to have to fuck. That’s why you’re paying an escort for her services — because your body needs it. And that’s Okay. That’s the way it is. I didn’t make the rules.
True love is just one style of having sex. There are many other styles. Just because you’re not in love doesn’t mean it’s not personal and intimate.
When you get horny, you masturbate. That’s part of the instinctual system that keeps you ready to fuck. You have to stay in shape so that when you get the opportunity to share your genetic material, you’re ready. This has nothing to do with love or religion or other mystical powers. You’re a man. You have a dick. You want to fuck. End of story.
Women are like that too. They have a cunt. It’s there to receive a dick. Women need men to fuck them. They want to feel you get off inside them. They want to feel you pump your stuff into them and they want to contract their cunt around you when you do. They need it. They are women, that’s what women do. Escorts are women too and have the same instincts as other women, often more.
A woman has a greater part of her body dedicated to having babies than a man does. She has a cunt that receives the dick, but she also has a uterus to carry fetuses and breasts for feeding babies. These organs are actively working in preparation for use. She has a period every month, giving her the opportunity to get pregnant. This is her instinct; she has to do it.
Women instinctively like sex and want to have orgasms. All you have to do is allow her instincts to do the job.
Women get horny like men do. They masturbate like we do. It keeps them hot and ready to get laid when the time comes. When a woman has sex, she wants to come. Pros have sex for money and often they don’t want to come, but they are women and if you do it right, the instinct will take over.
Foreplay is mental as well as physical. Besides getting her ready physically, she also has to be ready mentally. And it’s not just a matter of arousal. Must of foreplay involves developing trust. Women are more vulnerable during sex than men are. They are physically weaker than men, dating by age review generally weigh less, and they are the one being penetrated. Women need to feel safe. So when you are touching women your touch should communicate to them that they are safe and that they can feel secure in enjoying themselves. In fact, generally the only limit to how much a woman can enjoy herself is how comfortable and safe she feels in how far she can let go. So a few candles, soft touches, and the right grin tell her she can drop her barriers and enjoy herself as much as she wants.
Much of sex is physical. You have your sex organ, she has hers. When you rub your dick right, you jack off and you come. When she rubs her cunt right, she jacks off and she comes. But if you rub it wrong, it doesn’t work. One of the secrets is getting it right physically.
That’s why you want to use lubrication. Scraping your dick against dry cunt flesh hurts both of you. When you grease it up, it slides in better and feels good to both of you. Get out the KY and grease it up. If it gets dry again, which sometimes happens even during good sex, pull it out and grease it up again.